Fate

Fate. What is it? Is it a camouflage to hide our failures or is it real? Is it an illusion or can it really make a story go from rag to riches?

I have never really felt strongly about fate. I mean, how can you hold some stars accountable for what is happening in your life.

But now as I am living each day, I am coming to terms with the fact that there is something much beyond the thinking of my mind. There are times no matter how hard you try, luck is not in your favour and sometimes you get too lucky and yet on other days, things are just as ‘normal’ as you had expected.

I have been observing it recently,  that whatever happens in our lives, we link it to winning and losing or may be happiness and sadness or worthiness and unworthiness . However, it is just meant to mould us in a certain way, to make us ready for the future needs,and just to learn or unlearn things.

Recently,  there have been three incidents in my professional life, which are quite appalling,  yet neither of these incidents happened because of someone’s inadequacy or  fault. It was just fate happening. And when you see such things happening, which are beyond  anyone’s control, you finally surrender to the Higher Power. You shut all the doors and open the door of your heart and what you feel within for those few moments is priceless. You just start embracing life.

You just start believing in this ‘Fate’. 

Fate , be it good or bad , teaches you how to take everything in your stride and accept the life.

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Second Guessing

I’m elated today after seeing my improvement. Today, I was in a situation where I had to give a speech. It was an impromptu one. My voice trembled a little bit through the speech. I wouldn’t shy away from saying that I was nervous. I was but it wasn’t nervousness out of fear, more of out of excitement.

Now, coming to the theme of my speech, it was quite different from what others said. When the event got over and I got some time to recapitulate things in my mind, I found myself second guessing my speech. But this time, I didn’t really let it hit me hard. Rather, I just responded to myself by saying ‘ I know that it’s just a pattern of mine, where I doubt my decisions, my work , my opinions etc. ‘ I was aware this time. So, it didn’t affect me much.

Morever, whatever happens, be it good or bad has to happen. It’s how your path is supposed to be. And, that  will make you what you are actually meant to become.

So, go ahead and embrace all days. Also, as said by Rupi Kaur , poet of Indian origin. ‘Healing is a daily process.’

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Own it all !

Own it all

Your love for the books

Your love for the solace

Your disciplined outlook

Your eccentricity 

Your introversion 

Your calm 

All your happy and not so happy space

Because when you stop owning

Apparently, no one will handle it with care

Let all of yourself belong to you

Own it all 

Be it good or  a bit different from ‘good’

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