Fate

Fate. What is it? Is it a camouflage to hide our failures or is it real? Is it an illusion or can it really make a story go from rag to riches?

I have never really felt strongly about fate. I mean, how can you hold some stars accountable for what is happening in your life.

But now as I am living each day, I am coming to terms with the fact that there is something much beyond the thinking of my mind. There are times no matter how hard you try, luck is not in your favour and sometimes you get too lucky and yet on other days, things are just as ‘normal’ as you had expected.

I have been observing it recently,  that whatever happens in our lives, we link it to winning and losing or may be happiness and sadness or worthiness and unworthiness . However, it is just meant to mould us in a certain way, to make us ready for the future needs,and just to learn or unlearn things.

Recently,  there have been three incidents in my professional life, which are quite appalling,  yet neither of these incidents happened because of someone’s inadequacy or  fault. It was just fate happening. And when you see such things happening, which are beyond  anyone’s control, you finally surrender to the Higher Power. You shut all the doors and open the door of your heart and what you feel within for those few moments is priceless. You just start embracing life.

You just start believing in this ‘Fate’. 

Fate , be it good or bad , teaches you how to take everything in your stride and accept the life.

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Thanks for reading 🙂

 

 

Comparison

Remember, how all the things are just going smoothly in your life, all is well in your paradise until someone tells how they got this new job with a package triple than yours or when someone just casually remarks that you know you could have done better and then all these thoughts of that other person give a migraine to you. Relatable anyone?

Comparison can only hurt when you are insecure about your space.

For instance, there are times when you feel intimidated rather than feeling happy for people earning more than you or may be people who are looking better than you.

Just repeating it now,

Comparison can only hurt when you are insecure about your space.

Just think what it’s like to come from a place that is secure. Whatever you earn, whatever you do, whatever you feel, these are all your choices, isn’t it fantastic? This is your world, make it your happy space. It’s all about feeling content with what you have and then looking out for better prospects because your world is ever expanding.

It’s not about money, looks or even for that matter the status a person has rather it’s about the quality of life that one leads.

Your friend might be earning 1 Lakh a month and you must be only earning 20k, but you can’t berate yourself for this.  First things first, you should be feeling happy when people around you are growing . It’s good. And secondly, you should be secure about your world and be in a happy space. Even if you earn 20k , you should own it proudly. You are happy in your own world, say it loudly and proudly. (Money and  looks are so overrated and the quality of life is so underrated .)

I know, it is easier written than observed in life. As quoted by the famous poet Rupi Kaur ‘Healing is a daily process’, so  you need to repeat it to yourself many times before it actually gets absorbed by your brain.

Just think how happy and content you are when not comparing because your world is a very secure,ever growing and a very happy place.

Feel proud of your world and you will be inspiring so many.

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